How to Manifest Love
The ability to consciously shape and shape one’s own reality is a skill that often comes in handy in life. You can literally use it to be, do, or have whatever your heart desires. And I can tell you from experience that it’s a lot of fun!
Today I’m going to show you how you can use this power and focus to manifest the love of your life! #exciting
Maybe it sounds too good to be true. But I can confidently assure you that this is not the case. Because this is the exact same technique that I used to manifest the love of my life. And if I can, so can you.
I also made a free tool for you called the Manifesting Cheat Sheet that you can download here! It will help you clarify what type of relationship you would like so that you can begin to align with it.
How to manifest the love of your life
Step 1: Identify the feeling:
The real key to manifesting the love of your life (or anything really) is to focus on the feeling.
Many people learn about the law of attraction and then focus on what their desired manifestation should be and how it will come to them. However, this approach never works as it does not focus on feeling what the desired manifestation will bring them. And capturing the feeling is everything!
When I talk about the feeling I mean this: How will you feel when this manifestation shows up in your life? Why do you even want it?
In that case, your answer would be something like … “Being with the love of my life would make me feel ________. I want a relationship because it will make me feel ________, ________ and ________.”
The reason you want it is because you think it’s going to somehow make you feel like you probably don’t feel right now.
Maybe you feel lonely and want a lover to keep you company. Maybe you feel like you are against the world and are looking for a feeling of partnership. Maybe you feel unwanted and want to feel wanted and valued.
Whatever the reason, you want a relationship (or anything in life) because you think it makes you feel a certain way. And you’re probably right that it will encourage those feelings, but the part that people always miss is the fact that you have to capture this feeling in your imagination first before you can have it in real life.
That is what conscious creation is about.
It’s like a game. How much of the feeling or emotion you want can you capture and practice to make it show up in real life ?!
How does this apply to the manifestation of the love of your life? Let me demonstrate using a few examples.
Step 2: Capture the feeling
Suppose you want to manifest a boyfriend. If you already know a little about the law of attraction, you think you’d better get specific so that you can focus … “I want him to be 6'3” with a nice smile, funny jokes, and lots of money. We will meet while flying on an airplane and fall in love at first sight. “
While all of this is fine and good, these types of thoughts will not get you to your prince. Why? Because you focus on what he looks like and how you are going to meet him. When instead you should focus on how he makes you feel.
If you focus on the feelings you want, it will come to you billions of times faster than if you rule the universe and tell it how it should look and how it will come to you. This is very limiting for several reasons. (Reasons I would explain if this was the chapter of the book, not a blog post.)
All you really care about, anyway, is how this new boyfriend makes you feel. That’s the whole reason you want him in the first place.
You want it to be big so you can feel safe and secure. You want him to be funny so that you can feel happy. You want him to have money so you can feel safe and secure.
Instead of worrying about how he looks or when you will meet him, imagine that you are already in the relationship. How does this perfect relationship feel?
“It makes me feel safe and protected (great). Just looking at him turns me on (nice smile). I feel happy when I’m with him (funny jokes). We never have to worry about money (a lot of money) “
See how that captured all of the traits you were looking for and turned them into feelings? When you focus on the feeling of the relationship and envision it, the universe has a little more creative freedom to give you a man who fits that description perfectly. Don’t limit yourself to one “type” or “look” if you’re really looking for a feeling.
Suppose you want to manifest a girlfriend. Someone who is really fit, brunette, maternal and athletic. This is how you turn these qualities into feelings.
You want her to be fit because you care about health and vitality. You like brunettes because you find them sexy. You want her to be motherly because you want a family. And you would love someone who is athletic and who you can do lots of fun activities with.
“She exudes health and vitality (fit). I love to look and play with her hair. It’s so sexy to me (brunette). She makes me feel like starting a family together (on my mother’s side). We love to spend time outdoors (sporty). “
Step 3: Practice the feeling
The final step is to practice the feeling until it becomes your new reality. In this way, you will become a vibrational match with the relationship of your dreams.
Practicing the feelings you seek in this new lover has two parts.
1. Part one is imagining the feelings as often as possible. This is the intentional creation/manifestation part.
2. Part two is to incorporate these feelings into your daily life. This is the vibration that suits what you want.
PART 1
My personal favorite way to really capture and imagine the feeling of being in a perfect relationship is to write about it. There is something so powerful about writing by hand. It really helps you slow down and focus easily.
Consider your lucky day today because I’ve already created a free manifesting cheat sheet that you can print out to follow the steps of this article!
Every night before you go to sleep, write for about 10–15 minutes. Pretend that your wish is already fulfilled and that you are currently in this perfect relationship with the love of your life. Just like the examples in part 2, you’re gonna capture all feelings of your new relationship.
Pro Tip: Write everything in the present tense as if it is currently happening.
Here’s an excerpt from the journal that I used to manifest my boyfriend to give you some inspiration. (And I should say that every single one of these lines describes our relationship exactly how it is today. This shit works people. I promise.)
“He makes me feel loved, supported, and taken care of.
We have lots of fun together doing artsy stuff like going to museums and shows.
He takes me to eat Thai food (my favorite) all the time.
We play wrestle for fun.
I really feel like myself when I am around him.
He is extremely empathetic and understanding.
He just “gets” me.
My cheeks hurt from laughing so much when we spend time together.”
Starting to get the hang of it? The more vivid you can imagine it, the better.
PART 2
Next, you have to make an appointment yourself (in the absence of a better description). You have to become the type of person you want to attract.
All of these things that you wrote in your journal or cheat sheet need to be incorporated into your daily life.
For me, I’ve found ways to feel more loved by taking the time to work on my self-love. I found the places in my life where I already felt supported and cared for. I started getting involved in art shows and museums. I ate a lot of the food. I practiced staying true to myself. Well, I sure didn’t wrestle myself, but I did envision wrestling him from time to time. I took the time to practice more self-compassion and understand myself. I’ve found lots of ways to laugh more.
To attract the love of your life you must first become it. Once you are good at it, they will show up.
As my husband, Preston Smiles always says: “Two halves don’t make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship: it takes two wholes.”
And there you have it! A step-by-step guide on how to manifest the love of your life.
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